Archive - Ksenia's Substack

I Love My Mom. I Just Can’t Have Her in My Life.

The complicated grief and pain of setting boundaries with the person you never stopped loving.

Aug 21 • Ksenia

June 2026

The Divorce Grief Nobody Warns You About

Maybe it was never about them..

Jun 17 • Ksenia

May 2026

Your Body Keeps Score

I thought I was healed. A med spa proved otherwise.

May 19 • Ksenia

April 2026

Nobody Brought A Casserole When My Family Died

The Truth About Divorce Support And Why We Keep Getting It Wrong

Apr 24 • Ksenia

March 2026

10 Reasons Why High-Performing Women Struggle in Relationships

And How To Change That

Mar 4 • Ksenia

February 2026

Are Dating Mixed Signals Really That Mixed?

A woman’s perspective on why the message is usually clear

Feb 10 • Ksenia

Let's Raise Men Worth Falling For

A Mom’s Take on Raising Two Teenage Boys

Feb 2 • Ksenia

January 2026

Shhhhh... Keep Your Dating Life To Yourself

Date in Private When Going Through High-Conflict Divorce

Jan 27 • Ksenia

When Divorce Crosses the Line Into Fear

A Strategic and Emotional Guide to Restraining Orders

Jan 13 • Ksenia

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